Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Should gay couples & Lesbians be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals even in adopting children?

Should gay couples & Lesbians be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals even in adopting children? If someone ask that question from me my answer would be yes. It does not mean i am supporting gays or lesbians. But it is some once choice. As far as a person not harming another person i do not see an action as wrong. As we select our partner in opposite sex some have attraction towards the same sex. Again i am not telling it is good or it should be encouraged. But still whatever we tell or banned, who ever wanna be so any how they will be so.

If some one known to be a gay or lesbians in the society he/she will not treated in a nice way. All will be talking bad about them. This will tend them to have the relationship secretly. It is not going to stop such relationships. So i personally feel as humans they also should be given same rights as heterosexuals. 

I do not see any wrong in allowing them to adopt children. But only thing what i see is that child may face problems in the future. Of course the society do not treat that child as others kids. They will treat them also in a bad way as their parents. People might make fun out of that kid & it will mentally affect the children and the future. After that they may start to hate their parents too. There is a high possibility for this to be happen. 

But if we see the concept only with the gay & lesbian couple's view, it is not wrong. They also might have the same wills as others. Because of some reason they have attraction towards the same sex. In the society there are so many bad peoples who is harming others. But some of them also have a good status in the society. A good example is politicians. By comparing with that type of people we cannot blame the gay or lesbian couples in any matter. They also wanted to have a family life. Every once motive is same. only the difference is the attraction & their choice. 

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