Dubai Miracle Garden

After long time i have visited such a very nice and beautiful place which is full of mind blowing flowers. What a beauty. I have no words to explain the beauty.

Dubai Miracle Garden

After long time i have visited such a very nice and beautiful place which is full of mind blowing flowers. What a beauty. I have no words to explain the beauty.

Dubai Miracle Garden

After long time i have visited such a very nice and beautiful place which is full of mind blowing flowers. What a beauty. I have no words to explain the beauty.

Dubai Miracle Garden

After long time i have visited such a very nice and beautiful place which is full of mind blowing flowers. What a beauty. I have no words to explain the beauty.

Ice Cream

Now time is almost 12 am and is cold too. I just finished enjoying an ice cream. For some people it might sound ridiculous when I say I had an ice cream in the mid night.

Monday, November 21, 2011

Miss You

Before your departure i started to count the days for your arrival
Every second is like a year when your out of my sight
I wake up with a happy mind on your arrival day
By the time i open my my eyes my phone started to ring.
It was U..............................
With extra happy i said hello
But your word destroyed all my hopes within a second.

Only tears started to speak
Why you said you are not coming????
To teach me the happiness which comes after waiting
or
To understand the pain of missing a loved one
or
You do not wanna see me...........


I know u did not even have a drop of sadness in your delay
When ever u come this innocent heart will be waiting for you
Hope you will come soon to take away my tears...............

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Never think twice to express a good thing

Everyone think about their future & do hard works. But whatever we do no will never know whether we will be alive in the next minute. No one can predict it. But we live with a hope that we will be alive. That is why we postpone matters in our life. There are times we want to appreciate a person or wanna say something and due to some reason we will not express it or postpone it. 

When person is alive normally people tries to dig their loopholes & always tries to find faults. But same time when he/she dies the same people who used to find fault will start to praise them. I think most of us would have experienced this kind of scenarios. What is the purpose or what is the use in telling good about a person when that person cannot hear. If can tell that same goodness when that person is alive that will make happier & also increase the bond in between any relationships. We do not loose anything by telling a goodness or appreciating others. 

Most of the time what happens was people used to find the mistakes of others easily & will never express the good thing though they realize it. We all may do that mistakes at times. What i think was always it is better to think twice before expressing a fault about a person. Because a word can hurt more than a wound. But no need to think twice to appreciate a person or express a good thing or to express the happiness. That will encourage the other person and also will make any relationship more healthier. 

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Daily deal Market.....Anything.lk

Daily deal market is a hottest business concept and it can attract many customers. 

What is Daily Deal market?
This is kind of a e-business. Each day the business offers deals in it's website with a huge percentage of discount. Which is mostly around 50% off from the original price. This is a tripping point in human psychology. Less price may attract so many customers. For example when a price of something remains 10,000 we may not look at it. but when the same thing which is given for 5,000 we will consider about it. Also this helps to get more business for the merchants.

I think this is a very good market strategy for the present. This is useful for both parties which is for customers and also for merchants. 

As most of the people aware Anything.lk is one of the most recent daily deal website in Sri Lanka which is based on the daily deal market concept. Within few months it started to attract many customers. This shows the success in the current daily deal market. I personally see it as a very good & successful concept!!!


Saturday, September 3, 2011

Facebook.... Facebook.. Facebook

I have already written a post about the Facebook & the usage of it. With the below link can view the previous post.
http://niroshii.blogspot.com/2011/06/facebook-fb.html Today a particular status of a friend of mine only made me to write this post.

After work i came to my place and as usual log in to Facebook. When i was checking the home page my first attention went to a specific status of a friend. i,e "It is almost two years passed since my mom died. :(( i miss my mom" 

Mothers love is unconditional. Any one will miss the loss of mom. The reason what made me to write this post  is, because there were 12 likes for this posts. I thought the like option is only for something which we like. But after seeing this i got a huge question mark about it. That person has put some normal & funny statuses previously. But for those the total likes approximately below 10. But for this within 5 hours 12 likes. 

Also recently another friend of mine has posted regarding a funeral. For that also there were few likes. I cannot exactly remember how many. 

Do these kind of statuses can be liked? Of course you can make a comment to make that person feel better. But i have no idea what they disclose by liking this kind of statuses. Do they like a loss of a person or a sadness of another person or they likes the expression of sadness??? 

Sunday, August 28, 2011

What goes around will come around

There is a famous saying "what goes around will come around". When some one do a wrong most of the people used to tell this. I do not know the truth in this. But up to some extent i believe in this saying. 

Though some people think that they are perfect as humans non of us are perfect. Every individual has loopholes. Some times we hurt others unknowingly by our words or actions. Cannot help for it. But there are times by knowingly we hurt others or do wrong to others. No remedy for this. If we are purposely doing a wrong to others means then it should be for some of our own benefit or selfishness. One day we will get that return somehow in any way.

I have no idea how far this is practicable. but i have seen some incidents too how people get the return one day. 

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Its Saturday but a blank day

Already i have mentioned in one of my previous blog i have a problem in finding the topics to write. Most of the time when i think to write something i go blank. Now also same. So just thought a write about today. But i have nothing to write about today because i did not do anything for the whole day. Most of the time i spent in my bed.

After work reached my place early morning and then next step is internet as usual. Since no chatting today was watching song for sometimes & went to bed. Again wake up around 2.30pm and did not felt hungry and also lazy to go out to buy food. Had some biscuits & then again to bed with my teddies. 

After that could not sleep. But just been in bed till about 5.30 and then had a bath & went to church. After dinner now again in internet until go to bed.

This is how may Saturday went on.......:)


Thursday, August 18, 2011

Sri Lankan University Education System

When some one talking about the university education the first thing which every one asking before the studies "what about the ragging? ". That much the word ragging has been interacted with the university education. When a person enter to the university the first thing which he/she should undergo is ragging. I am not totally against for ragging. Just requesting to sing a song or telling some funny things are acceptable. I can remember still some of those things which i did as sweet memories. But physical ragging is not acceptable. This has taken out some human life's. The main reason which the rangers used to tell is " I have been ragged. So i want the same pain the others also to undergo".  Whoever the person think about others will never tell that word. He/she will think what ever the pain/ troubles they went thorough should not be undergo by others & will try to protect & help others.

Moving towards the education side, my personal opinion is it should change completely. Here specifically i am mentioning about the commerce & management faculty which i studied. Because to comment about other faculty studies i do not have a clear picture about their syllabus or education system. Mostly for Art & commerce & management faculty this is same.   

If we take commerce & management faculty the specialized degree program scheduled for 4 years. As per my knowledge if it is scheduled in a proper way & computerized 2 years more than enough. This 4 years include all the vacations, strikes, etc. When come to higher education i think vacation for nearly a month is not necessary as schools. Also the syllabus should focus more towards the current market & it should change accordingly. 

The people who got the highest marks in their advanced level examination only entering to the university. But with the way some people behave tend to think do they really educated & how they studied. I do not know whether that kind of people always like that or that change after entering to the university. With some people cannot see the professionalism at all. They behave like thugs. But i have seen many people when entering they are good & they come from rural areas. After entering in few months times they completely change. They give the priority to the other junk activities such as politics, fights & not for the education. I used to think many times why this people cannot focused only on studies. Because we enter university to study. Not to do strikes or to fight.

Currently most of the people have a bad impression about the graduates. Cannot tell a wrong about the people who has such impression. Due to the behaviors of some students any one will tend to think so. After completion of degree even if they do not get a job they do picketing. Some companies do not like to hire graduates due to this unprofessional behaviors of some graduates. For this cannot blame the market sector. The Undergraduates/graduates who were part of such cheap behaviors should take the sole responsibility. 

Basically overall the university education system should change. ( But not by introducing military training)

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

LOVE.............. Which kind of love is better???

Love is one of the utmost thing every one expect in life and any way its is a sweet feeling. True love will make ease so many problems in life.

Though love is only a four letter word it means a lot & cannot define Exactly this is love. This may differ person to person. The way a person show their love & also how they wanted to be love is not same. This may differ person to person.

Mainly we can categorize the way of love in 2 ways. Some people they always show and express their love. But other half they always do not express much or show off. Always they try to keep on inside. But what my opinion is love needs to be show. I am not telling the love which is not shown are fake or bad. But it is better to be show always. It will make the relationship much more stronger & your loved once more happy.

We feel happy when some one whom we love more tells somethings nice or appreciate even a small matter. Also love should not not be only in words. The main thing it needs to be shown by actions. In Most of the cases before someone going or propose us we may feel that they are in love with their actions. 

My personal opinion is, strong love should consist verbal expression plus actions. It will always increase the bond between the relevant parties. This is not only applicable for lovers or husband/wife. This will make strong any kind of relationship. 

Please see this previous blog which is related to this same topic.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Just a Thought...

Most of the times i wanted to blog something. But i do not come up with a topic what to write. Today also i was in the same mindset and just thought to write about this.

Life never be the same. There are many periods/situations in every individual life. In our day to day life we meet and associate with so many people. When we are small except the family we know very few people. The first step in our life to the social life is, entering the pre-school/school. From that day itself we meet so many friends & new people in our life. Later on work.

If we think for a minute with those people whom we met so far how many we remember and keeping in touch. Time to time we have some close people in our life specially friends. Sometimes we think we never be apart & will be good friends always. But situations will make a separation. In that case what we do? mostly we all think where ever we go/ what ever happens we will be in touch & will be good friends. For few days we will miss & be sad. But except very few we will forget the others after sometimes. 

Again we will meet new friends with new life. Like wise life goes on. We can never predict what will happen next. But whatever happens of course we can never forget some people in our life. There the few who will make foot prints. It can be in both good and bad ways. Some we will remember with sweet memories. There will be another few we will remember with bitter experience or with a lesson. 

Most of us have lot of friends. Sometimes i used to think though we have so many friends & so many people to talk, how many are real people in that. Most of the people will be with us only in the happiness. You can see a good friend only when the time of a trouble or sadness. At happy times or when a person is free they always have time for others. But with those how many are there who will make a sacrifice or who can spend a minute with their busy schedule. When a person is free they always have time to think about others. But only a true friend or whoever loves you truly only will always have time on behalf of us at any hard times. 

If i make a friends list it will be very long. But if make a TRUE friends list it will very few. But i am happy @least there are few true people in my life whom i can trust always who will be there in every moments of life. 

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Love at first sight

There is no one specific definition for love. Every one will define it in various ways. As humans all of us need love for a happy life. First of all we experience the love of our parents and then  siblings, relatives, friends and so on. We get loved by various people in our life.

In that, the role of soul mate plays a huge part in life. After marriage the husband & wife becomes one. Two souls combines together. It is the very stable relationship in our life. Until the death we are going to live & share the whole life with our spouse. In that case selecting the life partner is not easy. To live a happy & a peaceful life there should be a very good understanding in between each other. Without getting to know a person fully, can never rely on that person. 

We can see lot of first sight love. I am not saying all the first sight love are unsuccessful or fake. There are successful & true once as well. But what i think is the first time if we see a person it cannot be true love, it is infatuation or just a opposite sex attraction. Obviously it is because of the look of the other person. At the first sight we cannot see the personality. 

In my point of view true love does not require the look. If the person is good & true then what else needed?

The success of first sight love also depends on the understanding of each other. 

Friday, July 29, 2011

If We can Go Back Few Years............

We are living in a modernized and an advanced world. Specially mobiles & internet already became a part of our day today life. Most of the things are done in a call and also has online facilities for most of the things. if we need food by a call can get door step delivery. For most of the things no need to to go get it done. Via online can get it done. 

But if we have a look few years back everything totally different. Our parents/Grand parents did not have those facilities as we are. if want to contact a person hardly had telephone facilities as well. Snail mail played a huge role. Specially with a people who are far away or out of the country. Nowadays social networks & messengers helps for a smooth interconnection. Through that we do not feel the distance. 

Fro the basic needs to self actualization all have been eased. I am sure if we go 100 years back to live, it will be very hard for us. Because we used to this easy life. it will be very difficult to adopt to that life style. But mean time the people who lived hundreds of years back comes to live in this modernized world how they will adopt this culture and globalization... I am sure they do not like it. They used to hard work. Of course they do not like this easy & rush life. 

Every individual used to a particular life style. Mostly we would like to stick for it unless some people who are very flexible with all the changes. This is will be same in moving forward as well. If we look forward few era's the world we be more developed. So many things will be changed from now. I doubt whether we will like it. 

We get use to the life style which is in existence at the time of our live. It will be hard to adopt easily to a different life style thought it is good and advance!

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Infertility & Divorce

I thought to write about this after hearing an incident from a friend of mine. Generally when we talk to friends so many things will be shared. Likewise recently when i was talking to a friend of mine she was telling me about her sister & the problem what she facing currently. 

She has already told me that her sister & brother in law had the affair for 8 years before marriage. They have married about 3 years back & have no kids yet though they have tried so many medicines. Because of that they have both have problems always nowadays & it moved up to divorce.

When she told that, what i thought was what happened to the love what they built from so many years? What happened to the understanding & the bond? I agree that if get married all will like to have kid/kids. But unfortunately some cannot have that. Of course any one will feel sad. But cannot have a child is a reason for divorce? None of them can be blame for it. Its none of their fault. Also i do not think the only purpose of marriage is to have a kid. The success in marriage is understanding the spouse & being together in all the happiness & sadness. 

If you do not have a kid & if really want a one you can adopt a child. To whoever born all are kids. No need to differentiate them. We can treat an adopted child as our own. But all does not like that. Nowadays there are so many ways & medicines to cure infertility. Still if all unsuccessful i do not think divorcing the partner is correct. At a time like that all will blame especially the lady. But that is one of the time the spouse can show the real love & caring. Without ignoring if he/she can treat her husband/wife in the same way that is greater than having a child.

Friday, July 22, 2011

Its not hard sacrifice something for someone or wait for someone. But its hard to find that someone who deserves it!!!

 "It is not hard to sacrifice something for someone or wait for someone. But its hard to find that someone who deserves it". This is my today's face book status. It is not my own. While i was reading something i got it sometimes back. It may be just a quote. But it is very realistic. Consist lot of meaning. 

In life all of us do some kind of sacrifices on behalf of others. If you do a sacrifice on behalf of someone whom you like, then you feel happy. It is not painful or hard. But most of the time the people whom we sacrifice does not worthy enough for it at all. We may think about them & do so many things. But we cannot get any value from them. 

Parents, Spouse, siblings, friends or whoever we cannot understand about a person fully.. 100%.There are times we cannot understand our self fully.Then how can we understand about another person fully? But  we can understand the movements of our very close people in most of the cases. Can identify even a small change. Same time there are people who never understand others feelings. It does not matter how they attached to. Whatever the reaction it is very hard for them to understand others. It is very painful when whom we sacrifice something, whom we love, whom we expect something, whom we trust does not understand us. 

As i said its not hard to sacrifice something on behalf of others. Because in life any way we have to make sacrifices. But no use in doing sacrifices on behalf of all. No use on making sacrifices on some one to whom you means nothing. It is hard to identify who deserves it.



Thursday, July 21, 2011

Popularity

Popularity is some of the peoples major dream. There are people who expect popularity in every thing what they do. I am not telling any bad to popularity or popular people or who seeks popularity. It is a wish of few. But just sharing some of my own thoughts. 

Personally i do not like popularity. There are people especially girls who are crazy about some celebrities and going after them. When ever i see such people i used to think why do they wanna go after them or so much crazy about them. There also just normal people due to some talent they are popular among the people. 

Not only celebrities. In our day today life we can meet so many people who are so keen to popularize in some matter. Then always needs others attraction. As i said before i am not telling any wrong in that. But i always have a question why we need to get popular? why people so much willing to get popular? 

There are people who wants to get popular and do so many things to achieve that. But with their personal life they might have lot of loopholes. If you cannot treat your family well, if you do not have time to spend with your own family.. loved once.. then whats the use in being popular? Popularization is not stable.It may diminish at any time. But among us there are so many people who sacrifice lot of relationships, lot of stable things on behalf of the popularization. 

If you get popular so many people will get to know about you. Many people will love you. But if you do not have time to spend with you long lasting relationships, if you cannot treat then well whats the use in life. Than all a person who can make their family happy, who can keep with a smile always will be the greatest person!!!

Monday, July 18, 2011

Some of The Great Values to Admire.

Honest

In other words can say speaking truth or sincere. As humans non of us are perfect. There are times all of us lie. If we call a person as honest it does not mean he/she has never lied. Most of the time being truthful especially with there loved once. There are few friends(guys) of mine who love their mother a lot. Most of the time they listen whatever their mother tells & have told me several times mom is my life.But they smoke without the knowledge of their mother. I always had a question with them if you love a person that much how can you tell such a lie. There are few who does the same with their girl friend/wife as well.(This applicable to trust as well.)


Trust.

you can never take & get the trust. Its fully based on the actions. Trust should come to a person based on our actions. Its is not easy to build the trust. But a small scratch to that trust can destroy the whole thing.Trust, honest & love closely interconnected to each other. If we love a person we trust them. Love also  occurs based on some trust. If so we expect them to be honest. Personally i value & admire the trust(honesty) more than anything. A person can show love. But hardly a person can be truthful & be honest. As i said earlier as human non of us are perfect. But it is very important to be loyal to our loved once. Because they trust us. We can be wrong. we would have done a big mistake. But always it is better to tell the truth. If a person who really loves us will understand & forgive our mistakes. Any way it is better to be hatred for what you are than showing a false picture & being loved. The same example which i said for honest goes with here as well. They may love their mom, fiancee or wife. But inside they are breaking the trust. If they get to know that this person smoking without their knowledge what will happen to the trust which they had on them? How it might hurt them. If we break the trust once i do not think the same person will trust us anymore on the same way. Always there will be question mark. Even if it is a big mistake if you tell the trust then  can be happy by thinking "at least this person has told the trust without hiding".


Love

Love closely interconnected with the two which i stated above. Love comes with expectations. If we love a person then we will expect something from them. Mainly the trust/honest. If it is not happening then there will be problems. Also love needs a good understanding & some sort of sacrifice. Love should be shown by actions more than words. Only the expressions does not make a perfect love. What we express should be felt by other person with our actions. We cannot define a way this is how love should be shown. There are some minor things which makes a person happy and indicates the love.This vary person to person. Love & caring does not have a time to show. It should indicate that "i always have time to love & care about you". It is not possible to be with the loved one always. Same time it does not mean that you need not think or care about them when you are busy or when you are with others. A simple word/actions can make a big difference.


Patience

Patience is a good strength and very important in life. Patience can solve many problems smoothly than being hot tempered. Also it is unpleasant to see when a person shouting. But it gives a pleasant personality to a person who has patience & handles all smoothly with a smile. 










Communication

In any kind of a relationship communication is very important. It can be personal or work related. Every individual needs to be a good listener always. If there is a proper communication there will not be any problems. Proper communication can solve any problems. Always the communication should be done by the people who have problems or who need it. But there are people who do not talk with the relevant person and they will tell their problem to all the third parties & get their opinion. I do not see it as a good way. It can increase the problem most of the time. Any problem can be solved if there is a proper communication. For this we needs to be a good listener as well.


Be who you are


There are people who change their self according to circumstances. (I am not talking about the flexibility here). It is very important to be our self always. We do not need to get an attention by being fake. There is a good saying "It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for wt you are not".

Sunday, July 17, 2011

What is Psychological pricing & how it affect the buying power...






Psychological pricing is a marketing/business concept which is used to influence the consumer buying power. Customers respond better to certain type of prices & they are more likely to buy with certain price levels. Psychological prices more often ends with the 9 digit. For example, 99.99, 9999.99, 99,999.99, etc.These kind of prices of course does not have any effect on the monkey what we are going to pay. Even if it is 999.99 we are going to pay 1000.00 & even if it is 1000.00 we are going to pay the same. 

But this of prices can psychologically hit the consumer buying power. It gives a different mind set to the buyer at the first sight. when we see a price at 10,000 it seems like big. Same time though there is only one penny difference if we see the price as 9999.99 we feel as less. That one penny difference hit the consumer mind in a large scale. 

At textiles, groceries, electrical item shops... where ever we go we can see this psychological pricing. Most of the people would not have thought about this pricing though they purchase at those pricing levels.

There are some consumers who measure the quality by the price. If the price is high they feel the product is high quality vice versa. This type of consumers always focus on the price. They do not accept the same product with same quality if there is a price variation. 

But these Kind of consumers are rare. Most of us go for low pricing. Psychological pricing can influence the consumers who go for the lowest price in a large scale. 

Movie Review - "Oye"



"Oye" is a Telungu movie. Though i am wring the review now it is not a new movie. It released almost 2 years back with the acting of "Siddarth" & "Shamili". It is a very good movie to watch who ever like love stories.

Shamili is an ideal Indian girl who thoroughly believes in numerology, sentiments, long life & all the regular simplistic life. Siddarth is a contradictory character to her. He is a rich person who believes in the short & sweet of life. He fall in love with that opposing character at the first sight.

From the start of the movie itself he falls in love with her. Whole movie is about how he tries to win her heart & the sacrifices he make of behalf of her & her happiness. Also this movie consist a bit different ending than the typical Indian movies.

Expressing the love on the birthday is a very cute & touching scene. This film emphasize the importance in the happiness of our day today life, how we enjoy our life, the importance in expressing the love to our beloved etc..

In most of the movies the girls character only will make cry, But here it is opposite. The ending really makes sad. Its a nice movie to watch!!!

From the below link can watch the whole movie with the english subtitles.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezMQyf5-xAY&feature=related

Saturday, July 16, 2011

One God Forever

Does God Exist? Some people have this question on their mind. Whatever the question only two answers related to it. Either God exist or he is not. Whether you are an atheist or a theist all people live with some hope, some faith. 

With my experience & faith i strictly believe in god. God exist in the world. We have many religions in this world. All the religion see & worship the god in different ways. For example Islamic people they do believe in Allah. As a christian i do believe & worship Jesus. 

If some one ask how the god will be i do not have a clear answer for that. I do not know how god is and whether physically he is alive. But than all the things there is some power. I do believe where ever the true love, or kindness exist there will be god. God is love. Love is god. God is a forgiver.  

Any one can ask if god is love then why we are going to church or temple to worship the god. Those are the places which is specifically dedicated to represent the existence of god. It does not mean god will only be there. We go there just to listen the word of god. Most of us feel a peace, relax and a special mind satisfaction when you go to such religious places. Through preaching we can get to know many things. There are many people who changed their life in a good manner by listing to the preaches. Also many can pray as one family. 

As i stated i strictly believe in god. But i have a very big doubt on the existence of many gods as the way we practice. For example as per Christians god is Jesus, as per Islamic god is Allah. What i think is there is only one god. That's is why i stated above i do not have an idea in which way god exist. As per my knowledge and believes people only differentiated the religions & god in many ways. We all follow what some people differentiated long ago. But our mind do not accept it easily. Because from small age we used to see the god in a particular way. Though i say there is only one god i also do believe in Jesus. If some one asked to change the religion i will never do it. That is our mind set. We do not want to give up our faith. 

What ever the religion we follow, whoever we worship.. the summary of all the religion is "Do good. not wrong".  None of the religious promote the bad. All the religions are a way/practice to direct the people in a good manner. All promote the love, kindness, helping others, etc. That why we say the people who practice & follow the religion will not go in a wrong way. If i say in another word the person who follow & practice the religion properly & truly will make less mistakes. 

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

One of the Biggest Cheater

If i put a open question "Who is the biggest cheater?" every one will come up with different answers.It can be vary person to person. But every one has a biggest cheater inside us. 

I would say the biggest cheater is our mind. While being with us it cheats several times. If we really need something or like something then our mind start to react in that way. it will give favorable options as our wish. Though something is good and if we don't like it then our mind will give hundreds of fake reasons not to go for it.

Most of the times our mind knows whats correct what is wrong. Same time it knows our likes and dislikes. In that cases in react as per our likes and dislikes. It ignores what is correct. Our mind will tend to make the correct as wrong & wrong as right. 

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Observation

This is about something which i noticed today while i was travelling from Kandy to Colombo. When i was waiting for the bus at the Kandy bus halt two guys were standing in front of me. From that one guy dressed up in official & other one was wearing a casual shirt.

One bus conductor was also wearing the same casual shirt which that guy was wearing. After noticing that that guy was telling to the other guy "Look this bus conductor also wearing the same shirt which i am wearing. I feel like removing it now. I am not going to wear this any more"

Some people have a thought that they should wear something uncommon. I am also included in that. But i do not see a wrong in that.But from his statement which come to my attention was the word he used "This conductor also wearing the same shirt & i feel like removing it now"

Conductor also a human as all of us. Why do we need to differentiate people by profession, religion, cast, rich, poor, etc.. I have no idea what both of that guys doing. Bus Conductor also a job. There are lot of culprits in the politics, police, etc. But there is a good image for them in the society. Like conductor who is just doing a simple job getting treated like this.

I am sure if the same shirt was worn by a celebrity or a reputed professional, that kind of people will be proud that they also wearing the same. Since this is a conductor  he felt in such way.

World is globalized & well developed. But when this kind of differentiation's will  be leaving? When people will start to look the other person only as a Human without considering anything???

Sunday, July 10, 2011

A getting to know questionnaire - 2

Sometimes back i have added a getting to know questionnaire.
http://niroshii.blogspot.com/2011/06/getting-to-know-you-questionnaire.html.
This is another part of it.

1- What's worse - Physical or Mental cheating?
Both. But a person who don’t cheat mentally do not tend to cheat physically as well.

2- Is it easier to forgive or forget?
To forgive.

3- Can men and women be “Just Friends?"
Yes.

4- Do you think is it possible to understand a person fully?
Nope. Sometimes we cannot understand our own self. Then how can understand another person fully…

5- Do you have any confusion currently?
Mmm yes.

6- Dating co-workers?
It is a nonsence.

7- The water park..
Yaa Nice.

8- When you are "In Love" do you notice other people?
Just Look J

9- Is flirting cheating?
Cannot call cheating. But it is a cheap behavior.

10- If someone called you a bitch would you be offended?
No. Let anyone to tell whatever they want.

11- Are you ok with your significant other being friends with an ex?
If ex then no jealous.

12- Would you live with someone without marrying them?
No.

13- Favorite sport?
Cricket (Only to watch)

14- Do you squeeze toothpaste from the middle or end of the tube?
The End.

15- Friends with benefits?
Cannot call then as friends.

16- Do you believe in angels?
I don’t know… Can or cannot be. But like to see an angel if there is.

17- Would you rather take pictures or be in pictures?
Be in pictures. Specially these days J

18- Have you ever flirted with someone you had no interest in?
Never.

19 - Ever kissed a random person and then walked away?
Nope.

20- What color looks best on you?
I do not know what looks best on me. But I like Black & white.

21- If you could play any sport professionally what would it be?
None.

22- Ever break up with someone and regret it?
Not Yet.

23- Are you a jealous person?
Comparatively No. But as humans every individual might have kind of jealousy.

24- Would you ever have plastic surgery?
Nope.

25- When do you want to get married?
If age wise means 26/27.

26- Next concert you're attending?
No such plans.

27- Favorite song?
There is lot. Mostly Tamil.

28- Favorite movie?
Latest VTV.

29- What's your sign?
I don’t know. I do not believe those.

30- Are you a beach, country or city person?
Beach

31- Have you ever had a "secret affair?"
No yet J

32- If you could own a non-traditional pet which would it be?
Monkey

33- Favorite show as a child?
Spellbinder.

34- Favorite summer drink?
Avocado.

35- Can you change a car tire?
No.

36- Favorite concert attended?
Nothing like that.

37- What you like to wear on your wedding day?
A Wedding dress with veil.

38- Have you ever sat and hoped for a phone call?
Yes.

39- Ever skip school and spend the day at the beach?
Nope.

40-What do you think about gay marriage?
No Objections if they are okay.

41- Have you been kissed?
Yes.

42- Do you disturb others?
Ya. At times. But serious times no.

43- When do you feel bad?
When I get hurt.

44- Do get annoyed when your beloved start to share all the unwanted matters with you?
Not at all.  I think it is a matter to be happy.

45- Are you good at cooking/swimming/etc?
Nope.



An interesting Animal

If i ask what is the interesting animal everyone will come up with different answers. Most of the people used to like Dog. Dog is the favorite pet for many.

If some one ask me what is my favorite animal or which is the most interesting animal my answer is Monkey. If i say that lot of people used to laugh at me.

Comparatively monkey is one of the animal most of the people do not like & used to insult about. But from small age i used to like monkeys and always used to admire their activities. Especially the medium size brown monkeys. And also i used to collect variety of pictures of monkeys. When ever i see a monkey i go & watch them.

Comparing with other animals monkey has some unique features. I do not know whether there were any relationships between monkeys or not. But really they have some features of Human.Whenever you see them can see something new always. Rarely can see a monkey with a dull mood. It will be active & happy always.

Some of the activities which i used to admire on them,

  • The way they carry the small monkey, how they feed, hug & make love.
  • Take Lice on another monkey & put it to their mouth.
  • They way they look, make funny faces & sounds.
  • When we not aware take the stuffs & going like a culprit.
  • Put their face on a small gap & the way they look.
  • When a monkey dressed up.
Those are just few. I would just say in one sentence that i used to admire all of their activities such as from the way they look  to sleep. Even if i am in a dull mood i feel happy when i see their funny & active way. I like to keep a monkey as my pet. But without caging want to keep inside the house as a family member.

Some of the interesting monkey captures which i got it from internet.










Saturday, July 9, 2011

A Small Story With a Big Message

This is a small story which i read. But carries lot of feelings.

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'
The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'
'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.
'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl.

'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go.
But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,
you will never let my hand go.'

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...


Do Age Attain ceremony Necessary for a girl??

Age attending is a natural thing which happens in a particular time of age. I have no idea how all the communities & cultures deal with it. But in Asian countries they celebrate this as a function. Especially in Tamil culture with the name of “Sadangu”. I would call this as a single marriage. Only a groom will be missing in that ceremony.

The girl will be dressed up like a bride & the parents will invite all the relatives & known people. That is why I said it is almost like a single marriage. For a wedding you are taking a function is reasonable & acceptable. Because from that day two people going to have their own family life & going to become one. But for an age attending, do this kind of a ceremony needful? I see this as a crazy thing. I cannot imagine what is there in to publish and to celebrate. Why they want to show to the world a natural thing which happens in the body. If honestly telling this is like publishing to the whole world from that day the girl is going to have monthly circulation. After that it will make some special attention towards that girl specially among guys.

Within some communities this function has become a must. Even if they don’t have money to spend for such a thing there are people who lend money & take the ceremony.

From the day the girl become age attained, the girl will be restricted seeing males for few days. I have no idea why only for those days cannot see guys. These things have been derived from a tradition & still people practicing it. And also until some auspicious time they do not take the ceremony. Sometimes this can be after a month from the day the girl become age attained. There is a believe if auspicious time has not be seen & these traditions has not been practiced that is not good for the girl. This is funny & crazy.

Some people take this for prestige. Since the next door person taking or some other relatives taking they also start to celebrate. They think if they do not take it is not good for their image.

Any way these things cannot be changed. In this world always there will be some people who blindly believe all the traditions & practicing it.



Never can satisfy woman (???)

This is a topic which came across in the office transport two days back. While going to office in the evening guys started this topic. I cannot remember the reason why they started this. But as per them woman cannot be satisfied. 

Cannot totally agree with that statement. But even i think girls expect more than guys. But it does not mean woman can never be satisfied. Mostly girls do sacrifices on behalf of their family than the guys. They do sacrifice their wills on behalf of their loved once. There are guys who does so many sacrifices. I never say no. But comparatively i believe girls does more than guys. 

Generally guys express what they need. Mostly girls does not tell every thing what they wanted. They expect their loved once should understand and fulfill their desires. I do not know whether it is correct way or not. Because other person cannot read our minds. But a person who is loving us should have a good understanding about us. If so up to some extent they should know our desires. Than asking & getting something we feel happy when our loved once understand our feelings, desires & fulfill it. 

I have heard lot of married guys telling can never satisfy the female party. There are guys who easily tell so. But they do not make attempt to understand their wife or her like & dislike. Some say Love does not expect anything. But i do not agree with that. What i believe is love comes with expectation. We expect less from the people who is not close. But we start to expect more from the once whom we love most.  

As i said earlier i think girls expect more than guys. A guy & girl both expect love. But i think a girl expect the love in variety of ways. Love, trust & expectations.. all three are closely interconnected to each other. Love comes with trust & expectations. There can be trust without love. But if there is no trust then no point in that love. Trust plays a major role in love or any kind of relationships. Even a tiny scratch to the trust can reduce the stability of the relationship. It can be wrong. But that is what i personally think. Love & Trust together start to expect. When the time these expectations are not are getting fulfilled only conflicts arising. 

For everything it is better to have a good communication & always share the likes, dislikes. It will help to reduce many problems. And also at times it is better to expect less from any one :)

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Saree Vs Jeans/Pants

Saree is one of the oldest dress which is wearing by asian ladies. Specially it is a cultural dress among Tamil community. Nowadays females have variety of clothes such as shalwar, frock, jeans, etc.. etc..

Among all, Jeans/Pants is one of the most popular dress by woman nowadays. From small to elder most of the people wear it. Still there are people who do not like woman wearing jeans. they think it is an indecent dress. specially in Tamil & Muslims communities. The people who say so accept saree as a decent dress & they categorize jeans with t-shirt or top as indecent. Indeed i cannot understand the logic in between that. 

Saree gives a complete & a special attractive look to woman. But if compare saree with jeans i would say jeans is more decent. saree is more sexy than jeans. If you wear saree can see the body parts comparing with jeans (Some people do wear jeans or whatever the dresses in an inappropriate way. i am not talking about those kind of way of dressing here). 

Always have a doubt in the above stated logic.

Stubbornness

Stubborn/Adamant  some of the common words we can here in our day today life. Some of the attitudes or feeling derive to a person at a particular time of the age. But stubborn come from the small age. A child who cannot speak also stubborn at times. Until they need something which they wanted they will cry. Likewise From small to elder all the people are stubborn in some way.

Generally all say stubborn is a bad habit & a person should not be stubborn. Yes can agree with that. some people are stubborn even for a small matter. They always stick to their words even it is wrong. They don't think about others feelings. What ever they need they wanted & also whatever they express is the correct thing. Though they know they are wrong they do not wanna accept the truth or do not want to be second.

But at time i think we all should have stubbornness. There are people who live with the ideas of others. whatever others tell, they will also start to think in that way or just blindly follow them. A person should always strong enough with their decision. Should have their own policies. It does not mean should be selfish or do not think about others. Specially when the times of team work or family life or when being with friends, etc there are many occasions we needs to listen to the rest. Also there are times we need to give up some of the things on behalf of making others happy (here what i mean by others is some special people / our loved once) or to come to a settlement. 

As human we should have discipline than anything. Nowadays most of the people go after money, beauty, social status, popularity, etc. But what i think is than all a person should have a good personality, should have good humanity. To maintain those good behaviors a person should have some sort of stubbornness. 

I would like to mention few examples here. since a person does not drink or does not smoke we cannot call as a gentle men. Because that person may be controlled by others not to do so or did not get a chance to do those. But a person who can stand in between hundreds of boozers and while they force if he/she can reject it without telling "i really did not had an idea of drinking. but since they forced i had to" you can call that person as a gentlemen. Also since a person is quiet or seems to be innocent we cannot tell that person is good or innocent. As i say always silent killers are more dangerous. some people they do bad stuffs always. But there are people who wait for the time. When they get an opportunity they will try to take the maximum advantage of it. There are guys and girls who do not go behind others. But if some once come across their way they will not leave them. Than calling a guy gentlemen who did not had any chances to associate with girls, can tell as real gentlemen who had  hundreds of chances to flirt or do whatever they want and still who maintain their values. same with girls as well. 

Like wise there are instances a person should stand with their own policies & decisions & also there are instances we should be flexible enough.

Monday, July 4, 2011

Do people need others only for their needs?

When someone put a open question from all of us "Do you need others only for your needs" mostly all of us response will be "No". But most of the times it is the opposite way. At time all of us are bit selfish. No one can reject it. But the reality is the people whom we associate thinking good in our day to day life are also same most of the cases. 

When they need something or at happy times all will be there. When we are in a need no one will be there.  The way of behaving of a person when others are happy not always same when they are on a need. At that time they may try to leave. people used to take advantage from others. 

So always than blaming others it is better not to expect anything much from anyone. 

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Facebook (FB)

Nowadays Facebook is one of the most popular social network & most popular word among youngsters. Like phone number nowadays one of the most common question which is asked when people are meeting is, "do u have a Facebook account?". From small to elder mostly all tends to create an account in FB. Though their is a age restriction as above 18, actually there is no use in that. All the people who are below 18 they create their account with a fake date of birth. 

As in everything in FB also there are advantages & disadvantages. 

As main advantages we can list the below,

  • It helps to connect with the people who lost touch & with the old pals.
  • To share photos & to chat with all the loved once who are near by as well as far away.
  • At times, to share the thoughts & to share opinions.
  • An Entertainment (But nowadays beyond the entertainment mostly all of us have become addicted for it)
  • Also can tell as a cost effective way of communication, especially to communicate with the people who are in abroad.With the globalization all of us used to spend more time with computers & internet.Comparing with before at present chatting, mailing, etc are most popular than phone calls & text. This helps to keep a good interconnection between our loved once especially who are faraway. Via FB easily can share all the photo albums & the comments.
Likewise we can tell much more advantages. Also as major disadvantages can classify below,


  • FB is a main way to grow the relationship with unknown & known people. At times it can be an advantage. But i think mainly as a disadvantage. Some used to add all the unknown people and sometimes we add people whom we know but who are not close or not good friends. FB is a way of chat & to get to know more about them. It will start with sharing the personal details & mostly will end up in the direct meet. There are so many love affairs too, which is started in this way. Most of the times these things can cause unwanted problems than the good in it.
  • FB we can say it as a hobby or a way of entertainment. But nowadays this has become an essential thing in our day to day life. People have become addicted for it. For some FB is like a food. The way how food is important to live, FB is also important. 
  • Mostly all used to share photo albums in FB. In a way this a bit dangerous & insecure. Though we have made privacy settings, a person can access & take the photos through a another persons account. This is help to misuse the photos. 
Likewise can list down much more advantages & disadvantages of FB. Another main thing which i noticed with some people is, If we continuously read their status we can get to know their whole life. It is like a live telecast. From bathing  to sleeping every thing will be updated including the personal problems. I have no idea what to call for this & also have a very big question why they want to share all their personals with all the people, specially problems. May be they might feel a relieve like talking with someone. 

Nothing is bad if we used it with a limit in an appropriate way.  I think FB is good way to keep in touch with known people & always it is better not to add unknown people. Specially chatting with unknown & less known people & sharing the personal things may cause serious problems in the future. So always it is better to  make a limit & a control when using the social networks. 

Monday, June 20, 2011

A getting to know you questionnaire

1. Tell me something obvious about you - I am a girl :)
2. Tell me something about you that many don't know - mm I don't know. May be that i feel sad even for a small thing.
3. What is your biggest fear - well.... if anything which makes me suffering, causes pain & also taking tablets.
4. Do you normally go the safe route or take the short cut?  - Mostly safe.@times short cut.
5. Name one thing you want that you can't buy with money - Trust

6. What do you most value in your friends - Always talking to the face, true caring, trust, speaking the truth, who do not try to put their likes & dislikes on me, etc.
 7. What is the one thing you hate most about yourself that you do often?  - Most of the time telling the truth to the people who do not worth for it.
8. Tell me something sexually about you that I don't know - I don't no.
9. Tell me something sexually about you that everyone knows - I have no idea.
10. What is your favorite lie to tell?  - Even if i am sad when someone ask, most of the times saying "Nothing" with a smile.
11. Name something you've done once that you can't wait to do again - Cannot remember any such thing at the moment.
12. Are you the jealous type?  - Nope.
13. What is the one person, place or thing you can't say no to?  - If i really don't like, or do not want to do can say no whoever ask.
14. What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you? - Cannot say one special thing. Even a small thing  or a sacrifice can makes happy.
15. If you could do something crazy right now, what would it be? - Going & living alone in a jungle on top of the tree with animals without telling anyone.
16. When was the last time you cried?  - mmm Today.
17. When was the last time you felt so good that nothing else mattered - Yesterday.
18. Do you feel comfortable in public with no shirt on?  - This question does not suit for a female :)
19. Name something embarrassing you did while being drunk.  - Luckily i do not have such habits.
20. If you answered this questionaire, who else would you like to see answer it?  - Whoever i like most.
21. If you lied on any of the questions, which ones and why -  Did not lie for any question

22. How would you like to Die - When sleeping.
23. What is the quality you most like in a man - Easy going, Personality(Not the appearance), who stick to their own word & policies without reacting according to others, Kind hearted, Very Honest, Value a small thing & who is bit crazy( in a good way) :D
24.What is the quality you most like in a woman - Same as above.
25. What you mostly dislike from guys - Bluffing, lying, controlling my own freedom, Smoking, get drunk & loose self control, Flirting, At a sight looking top to bottom, etc.
26. what you mostly dislike from woman - Some of the above stated & jealousy, not speaking openly, Gossiping,Selfish, etc
27.Whom you most admire - Mother Theresa.
28.Do you have any opposite sex friends whom you like & associate very closely? - Yes of course.
29.What's the first thing you notice in the opposite sex? - Personality...the way they behave.
30.Have any celebrity crushes? - Not at all.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Everyone in life is gonna hurt you, you just have to figure out which people are worth the pain.

This one of the saying which i like most. The reason for it is, this is very true & a realistic one. I am sure every one in this life going to hurt others in some way. Most of the time by knowingly & sometimes unknowingly. Some people they do get hurt even for a small thing(Including me) & some are not like that. 

We mostly get hurt when a person whom we like a lot, care about & trust do something or say something. We cannot assure all the people who we like, care & trust have the same feeling on us. For them we may be just another.

So always it better to find out which people are worth the pain & better not to bother about others even if we like them.

Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, forever to repair...

Trust is one of the most precious word. Everybody live their life based on some trust. No one is living without hopes. Trust is very important in all the relationships. Love is also based on trust.

When a person says trust me, we are not going to trust that person. Trust is totally based on the activities & behaviors of the other person. we build trust on them based on that. As soon as we see a person we cannot trust. We can talk to anyone. I do not see any wrong in talking to people. Because a person who is bad for others can be good for us. If we talk & associate only we will know the real picture of the person. But Always better to keep a limit with whoever we fail to build trust. 

Trust is based on expectations. We do not expect things from all. But if we trust a person we will expect something from them. Thats is what you called trust. When a situation comes, we itself think based on the trust what we built, this person will do so & so. If the person whom we trusted failed to react so, that hurts a lot. 

The trust which we built for a long time can be break by a single word or a small activity. Always we cannot say wrong also. Because all the people are not same & the likes & dislikes are differs to person to person. Since that we forgive them. But i do not think a broken trust can be get it back again on the same way. If a person breaks the trust once then we are not going to trust them in the future as the way we did before. It takes forever to repair. Broken trust creates an incurable wound in the heart!

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Visit to an Elders Home



Today i went for an elders home @ Modara which is "Shanthi Nivasa". This has done by Missionaries of charity.

As i say always my favorite personality & most beloved woman in this world is Mother Theresa. Once @ university while we were talking, just we were telling about the woman whom we adore most. Mostly all said their mother. I said Mother Theresa. Then one person told me "this is bad, no one can be as our mother". All our mothers love & really care about us. They are willing do or sacrifice anything on behalf of their children. Thats is the nature of mother. 

But It is not easy to be like Mother Theresa. I would say she is the mother for the whole world. She became a shadow to thousands of abandoned. She sacrificed her whole life on behalf of the poor, abandoned & needy people.  

Though she is physically not alive in this world, the service which she created will be there forever. The place which i visited today also an effort by her. 

There are around 100 elderly people are there in the house. Mostly all of them are like kids. They need the attention in all their activities. Only 4 sisters are there to look after every one. They used to do everything for those needy people such as washing, shaving, cutting the hair, etc.. We should really appreciate those sisters & their service. A good example for the living god. 

All the credits for these service should goes to Mother Theresa who is the Initiator of this Missionaries of Charity. Than going for parties, trips or anything this kind of activities gives a real happiness.

Today visit was planned to go by myself and a friend of mine. Due an unavoidable reason @last it ended up going with another good friend of mine. This is the first time we went alone some where. It was happy to go alone with such a person to a such place for the first time.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

A good friend can be a good Husband.

Friendship has no gender. It can be born between any one.  Nowadays friendship between opposite sex is a common thing. On the same time we do see some of such friendships turn in to Love after sometime.

I thought to write of this after seeing a debate topic in a paper “whether friendship turning into Love is good or bad”. In that Debate some has argued friendship cannot be turned into love. If it turns so it is like cheating the friendship & no real friendship in that. The people who have positively argued has wrote that, it is a good thing & if we marry a good friend there will be a good understanding between them & can have a happy life.

I do not think friendship turning into love as bad. Love can occur at anytime with anyone. We cannot limit it only with a group. Some goes for peoples look. But real love will not occur because of the looks. Real love is for the persons some qualities, attitudes, behaviors, etc. It needs only a good & a pure heart. Not a cute face.
 
But always cannot agree with the point a good friend can be a good husband. There can be lot of good friends in opposite sex. But that does not mean we will like to marry all the good friends. Some are really good for friendships. But we know that person does not suit as a life partner. It is true that a good friend have a good understanding. But cannot assure from all that they will remain the same in the future as well. Also it does not mean that we like everything from a good friend. To be a life partner there should be a special attraction more than a friend. Some of their qualities or talks or the way they are really should get attracted towards the other.

In my point of view always cannot agree with the saying “A good friend can be a good husband.” But rather I would say “A Good Husband Can be a Good Friend”. 

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Dansela

Dansela is a most common word which comes with vesak day. Vesak is a day when the Buddhist celebrate Lord  Buddha's Birth, Enlightenment and Death. With Lanterns & Pandals Dansela also playing a major role on the vesak day. 

Those days no transport facilities as we have now. People used to travel by walking or by carts most of th time.It makes people tired. Because of that in the roads some used to give drinks or something to eat to take away the tiredness. As per my knowledge this is how the concept of Dansela derived. 

That practice only still followed by the people. Vesak days every where we can see so many dansel such as rice, drinks, biscuit, ice cream, coffee, etc, etc. Thsese are the most common once where we can see every year. 

But this time i got to know a different type of dansela & also which is very meaningful. Indeed should appreciate the person who had a thought to give such a dansela. This different dansela is from Badulla - Ridhimaaliyedda. 

All must be wondering what is this dansela. But we cannot easily guess it. That is Kerosene oil Dansela. As per the article which i read a business man doing this dansela for the sixth time for the rural area Kuruvithenna which does not have electricity. The person who did this wonderful thing is Thissa Hewawasam. 

I am not telling any wrong to other type of Dansela. But most of the time we go to such dansela not because of we did not have anything to eat. Just for fun or for a change. But this persons activity can fulfill a Real need of a person. We should hats off to such people.

Here few pictures of that dansela....


Sunday, May 22, 2011

Getting to know each other better!

This is i got it from some website some times back. This application's heading is getting to know each other better. But here i am going to fill this & i am going to get to know about me :)

1. What time did you get up this morning? I slept in the morning

2. How do you like your steak? Fry

3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema? Water for Elephants

4. What is your favorite TV show? Currently non.

5. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be? Where ever only the good people live

6. What did you have for breakfast? Short-eats

7. What is your favorite cuisine? Anything Non-veg

8. What foods do you dislike? There are lot.

9. Favorite Place to Eat? Bars cafe(Roof top), Marry Brown (cz of seating arrangement. Not the food), Sizzles

10. Favorite dressing? Jeans, T-shirt, Saree

11.What kind of vehicle do you drive? No driving yet

12. What are your favorite clothes?  Jeans, T-shirt, Saree, 3quarter

13. Where would you visit if you had the chance? Europe

14. Cup 1/2 empty or 1/2 full? 1/2 full

15. Where would you want to retire? In the heaven :D

16. Favorite time of day? When Ever i am happy i like that moment.

17. Where were you born? Sri Lanka

18. What is your favorite sport to watch? Cricket

19. Who do you think will not tag you back? I Don't know

20. Person you expect to tag you back first? Any of my good friends.

21. Who are your most curious about their responses to this? I do not think all the people will fill this like i do :)

22. Bird watcher? mmm ya

23. Are you a morning person or a night person? At present fully night person.

24. Do you have any pets? Nope

25. Any new and exciting news you'd like to share? Nope. No such new things

26. What did you want to be when you were little? No Specific goals. i wanted to study well.

27. What is your best childhood memory? Nothing special.Some of the school days & once when i went to take medicine.

28. Are you a cat or dog person? None

29. Are you married? No

30. Always wear your seat belt? No Vehicle

31. Been in a car accident? No. I wish i will never have an accident.

32. Any pet peeves? No

33. Favorite Pizza Toppings? Chicken/Devil Chicken

34. Favorite Flower? Rose

35. Favorite ice cream? Saucey Sundae (Almost like every thing)

36. Favorite fast food restaurant? Mc

37. How many times did you fail your driver's test? Never attended.

38. From whom did you get your last email? Face book, as a person Vinothini.

39. Which store would you choose to max out your credit card? Any textile :)

40. Do anything spontaneous lately? I think no.

41. Happy with your job? Neutral.

42. Broccoli? I don't like.

43. What was your favorite vacation? No specific one yet.

44. Last person you went out to dinner with? Pahee & Joel

45. What are you listening to right now? Only the Fan sound.

46. What is your favorite color? Black & White

47. How many tattoos do you have? None

48. How many are you tagging for this quiz?  If tag a good friend & if they do not fill it may make sad. So better not to tag anyone.

49. What time did you finish this quiz? 8.24 p.m

50. Coffee Drinker? No

One of my favorite movie character




While watching movies we can come across so many interesting characters which we like. In those some we will forget after few days. But some characters which will be in our mind always.

Today i thought to write about one of that kind of character which i like always. I think i watched this movie almost 10 years back. I have watched so many movies after that. But still from the day i watched that movie i used to like that particular character. This will not change.

This is non other than the character which is played by Ajay Devgan as "Vanjaj" in Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam. I'm sure in reality there will be very very less people like that. may be we can count if there is.

What is there that much in that character? If we just see the movie & the character its one of the same love story with a sort of same ending which all the movies have. But if we go deep in to "Vanraj" character, can see the difference in that.

I will just write here the summary of the Ajay Devgan's character. In that he will get marry to Ishwarya Rai by a proposal. But he used to like her a lot. After marriage only he will get to know that she had an affair before & still she is loving & thinking about him & not Ajay. He is getting to know that Ish is not happy with him & she is married him because of her parents forced. Since that he is deciding to find & make together Ish & her boyfriend who is already left india & went to Italy coz of the Ish's family request.

Ajay's father knows he is loving Ish. After getting to know the decision of Ajay that dad don't scold like others. he will tell one word. "So far you used to loose all your cases (Ajay is a lawyer in that). But you have won your life. I am really proud of you"

He was bearing all the pains & troubles because of his loving wife. There is a saying "If someone really loves you, they will give priority to your happiness than their happiness". What Ajay Devgan does is exactly what was stated in that saying. Though he love Ish a lot he do not want to keep her if she is not happy. That is why he is trying to find & give her happiness. He thinks only about her happiness. Not about him. Untill the last moment what ever Ajay does Ish does not realize the value of it. But he does all without expecting a return for him.

One of the very difficult thing is letting to go the person whom we really love. But he is doing that. In that also the highlight is after marriage. He does not think about his future. He needs only his wife to be happy. He is trying to seek happiness on her.

I have attached a link here which shows his patience.

This is my all time favorite character in the screen. I wished to see that sort of people in the reality as well.

Friday, May 20, 2011

Beauty....

Beauty is the first thing which can catch up a persons eye. When we see a beautiful thing we used to express it with several words such as "pretty, cute, beautiful, awesome, gorgeous" etc, etc...

Every individual like to be beautiful & all have their own beauty. Beauty can differ to person to person. It depends on the way how a person seeing it. Some times we used to like something because of the beauty & also if we like something that is always beautiful for us.

Most of time time we use to look the external beauty of the person. People get attracted towards the appearance. Rarely look in to inner beauty of the person. In the society there are lot of people who is not beauty by face. But they beautiful than some people who is beautiful only by looks.

A person who is beautiful by heart is thousand time better than a person who is only nice by looks. Beauty can shade away. But a pure heart will remain the same forever. Rarely can see people who has both.

Apart from appearance some of the beautiful things/persons which/whom i see;

  • A helping heart
  • Who can treat every one only with the category of "HUMAN", without separating by race, religion, cast, poor, status, etc..
  • Who can appreciate & value even a minor thing.
  • Who can see a beauty even in a rain drop.
  • Trustworthiness & understanding.
  • When the whole world misunderstands you & treating badly, a true loving & caring heart which can see your value & be with you.
  • Who forgets the bitter memories or mistakes & value or remember the good things which received by him/her forever.
Likewise there are so many things which can be attracted from a person. 

EXTERNAL BEAUTY YOU CAN ADMIRE. BUT INNER BEAUTY YOU CAN WORSHIP.