A good friend can be a good Husband.

Friendship has no gender. It can be born between any one.  Nowadays friendship between opposite sex is a common thing. On the same time we do see some of such friendships turn in to Love after sometime.

I thought to write of this after seeing a debate topic in a paper “whether friendship turning into Love is good or bad”. In that Debate some has argued friendship cannot be turned into love. If it turns so it is like cheating the friendship & no real friendship in that. The people who have positively argued has wrote that, it is a good thing & if we marry a good friend there will be a good understanding between them & can have a happy life.

I do not think friendship turning into love as bad. Love can occur at anytime with anyone. We cannot limit it only with a group. Some goes for peoples look. But real love will not occur because of the looks. Real love is for the persons some qualities, attitudes, behaviors, etc. It needs only a good & a pure heart. Not a cute face.

 

But always cannot agree with the point a good friend can be a good husband. There can be lot of good friends in opposite sex. But that does not mean we will like to marry all the good friends. Some are really good for friendships. But we know that person does not suit as a life partner. It is true that a good friend have a good understanding. But cannot assure from all that they will remain the same in the future as well. Also it does not mean that we like everything from a good friend. To be a life partner there should be a special attraction more than a friend. Some of their qualities or talks or the way they are really should get attracted towards the other.

In my point of view always cannot agree with the saying “A good friend can be a good husband.” But rather I would say “A Good Husband Can be a Good Friend”.