As humans we all have experienced love. As kids first we love our parents, then sibling, friends, spouse, etc. When we say love mostly we talk about the love between opposite sex.
Love can start from first sight or after few days of association or after few years. Love starts coz of some attraction on the other person. Some people attracted towards the appearance, beauty… some for the habit… heart…. Talks….. etc, etc… Since we like something on the opposite party we start to love them.
But how many of them love the person as the way they are. Mostly they attracted towards something & start to love by thinking can change the rest. Is that correct?
For example one falls in love with other coz of the appearance. Say if he/she didn’t like their dress code or hairstyle. So forcing the other to be for their choice. I am not saying we never have to say anything. If anything wrong or bad always can say & correct it. But mostly people tend to change even a good thing according to their choice.
Say if two religious people start to love. First they will be okay. But when the time comes to marriage some people wants the other to convert even though the other party is not willing. Is it ethically correct???
I think a person should love the other person as the way they are. Not few things. If we start to love few things of a person that love won’t be so success. Because of the love other party may willing to change their self. But is that the best thing?
IT’S BETTER TO FIND A PERSON WHOM WE LIKE AS THE WAY WE WANT THAN TENDING TO CHANGE A PERSON ACCORDING TO OUR CHOICE.
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