Dansela

Dansela is a most common word which comes with vesak day. Vesak is a day when the Buddhist celebrate Lord  Buddha's Birth, Enlightenment and Death. With Lanterns & Pandals Dansela also playing a major role on the vesak day.  Those days no transport facilities as we have now. People used to travel by walking or by carts most of th time.It makes people tired. Because of that in the roads some used to give drinks or something...

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Getting to know each other better!

This is i got it from some website some times back. This application's heading is getting to know each other better. But here i am going to fill this & i am going to get to know about me :) 1. What time did you get up this morning? I slept in the morning 2. How do you like your steak? Fry 3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema? Water for Elephants 4. What is your favorite TV show? Currently non. 5. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be? Where ever only the good people live 6. What did you have for breakfast?...

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One of my favorite movie character

While watching movies we can come across so many interesting characters which we like. In those some we will forget after few days. But some characters which will be in our mind always. Today i thought to write about one of that kind of character which i like always. I think i watched this movie almost 10 years back. I have watched so many movies after that. But still from the day i watched that movie i used to like that...

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Beauty....

Beauty is the first thing which can catch up a persons eye. When we see a beautiful thing we used to express it with several words such as "pretty, cute, beautiful, awesome, gorgeous" etc, etc... Every individual like to be beautiful & all have their own beauty. Beauty can differ to person to person. It depends on the way how a person seeing it. Some times we used to like something because of the beauty & also if we like something that is always beautiful for us. Most of time time we use to look the external beauty...

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உன்னால் முடியும் என்று சொல்லி நீ என்னை பார்க்காமல் பேசாமல் இருந்த முப்பது நாட்களின் வலி... கோபம்... எல்லாமே கரைந்துவிட்டது உன்னைப்  பார்த்த அந்த நொடியில் உதித்த மகிழ்ச்சியில்... காதலிக்கும் பொது நீ தந்த முத்தத்தில் காதல் காமம் இரண்டையும் கண்டேன்... ஆனால் இப்போது நீ தந்த முத்தத்தில் என்றும் நீங்காத உன் அளவு கடந்த பாசத்தை மட்டுமே கண்டேன்... வாலிப வயதில் எல்லோருக்கும் முத்தம் கிடைக்கலாம்... ஆனால் இந்த வயதிலும் அதே...

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Who made this as a culture?

All the ethnicities have their own cultures.  Sinhalese have their own cultures & rituals. As well as Tamils have their own culture & rituals. Personally I have some contradictory thoughts with the tamil culture. If you see most of the Tamils specially Hindus keep “pottu”, “flower”. That is some once wish if they like can keep or else no need. But some thinks married people they should keep “pottu” & always should wear “thaali” ( Thaali is sort of a necklace which is put by the groom to the bride on the time of wedding)....

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Am i a murderer ???

All the people who are non vegetarians are murderers in some way including me. if so i should be a very big murderer. Being non veg is not wrong. But many time i have thought when getting killed how much an animal should be suffering? An animal also a creature like us. When cutting it must be also having the same pain. If a small blade cut how much it is paining for us. So how much it must be paining for that animal.  But When eating we (I) do not feel it. As i said many times i have thought how much it must be suffering. But while eating...

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Should gay couples & Lesbians be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals even in adopting children?

Should gay couples & Lesbians be given the same legal rights as heterosexuals even in adopting children? If someone ask that question from me my answer would be yes. It does not mean i am supporting gays or lesbians. But it is some once choice. As far as a person not harming another person i do not see an action as wrong. As we select our partner in opposite sex some have attraction towards the same sex. Again i am not telling it is good or it should be encouraged. But still whatever we tell or banned, who ever wanna be so any how...

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Sunday Mass

Today morning I went to church at kandy – Getambe parish. Today church celebrated the mothers day. That was happened in a very nice way. The reason for me to write about it here is the end of the mass. At the end of the mass priest requested all the mothers to come to front-alter.  After that he requested the children’s to come and stand facing their mothers face. After that he wanted to tell the below verses by the children looking at the eyes of their mother & then to wish & worship them. “Mother, you mean a lot to me. You...

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பிரபு தேவா நயன்தாரா காதல்

அண்மைக் காலமாக தமிழ் சினிமாத் துறையில் பரவலாக பேசப்பட்ட ஒரு விடயம் தான் பிரபுதேவா நயன்தாரா காதல். எனக்கும் இது ஒரு தேவை இல்லாத விஷயம் தான். இருந்தாலும் ஒரு சில விடயங்கள் சொல்ல தோன்றுகிறது.  பிரபு தேவா ஏற்கனவே திருமணமானவர் என்பதால் தான் இந்த காதலுக்கு இவ்வளவு எதிர்ப்பு. பத்திரிகைகள் மற்றும் ஏனைய அனைத்து ஊடகங்களும் அவர்களை திட்டித் தீர்கின்றன. அதிலும் நயன்தாரவிட்கு அதிகம். பெண்ணாக இருந்து கொண்டு இன்னொரு பெண்ணின் வாழ்கையை கெடுக்கிறார்...

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Relationship between parents & Kids

Nowadays with the busy life people do not have a good communication even with their families. Parents busy with their work & children’s buys with their work.. school, tuition, then again study. After that with tired all go to sleep. Then again morning rush to work and school. This is the routine in most of the families. I think Parents should be as friends with their kids. Then only their children’s do not feel any fear to share any matters. Too much freedom & too much restriction both can ruin the kids in the wrong path. But kids...

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Happiness & sadness

Fundamental two feeling which all can experience from a kid to elder is happiness & sadness. We can never count how many times we were happy & how many times we were sad in our life time. Within a single day both feelings can rotate time to time. If we see a small baby suddenly they will cry. As soon as we gave something to play or show something next second they will smile. We also do the same. But the difference is a small kid will show the sadness with tears always. As adults we always don’t show the sadness with tears. For both...

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What makes a good relationship?

What is a relationship? A relationship is the interactions or bond between two or more people, things, animals or places. All the creatures have some kind of relationships. But all relationships cannot be a good one.  For a good relationship to exist there should be some characteristics. These days breaking of relationships becoming an usual thing. Rarely can see people have true & understanding relationships. The main reason...

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Mercy Killing can be legalized?

Mercy killing implies the intentional termination of life by another at the explicit request of the person who wishes to die. This is an act of killing an incurable person out of concern & compassion.  As far as I have heard mercy killing is legalized for about 10 countries including Netherland, Switzerland & Norway. Generally if we see killing is a bad thing & a big sin. But if we go through the depth of mercy killing cannot see a bad in that. It is a good thing. Mercy killing does not mean all the people who are ill should...

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Silent Killers

There is a common saying all the five fingers in hand are not same. Likewise all the people are not same. Everyone is different from other. Some used to keep very quiet. Some talks a lot. Another few talks all the wanted, unwanted & whatever comes to their mind.  Which type of people more trustable? My person opinion & experience is people who talk anything frankly are more trustable than the people who keep quiet. Some people seem to be very quiet & innocent. But mostly that sort of people are the one who is very cunning in...

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You & Me

We both come to this world by the way of birth to act in this LIFE..... Both of us were acting a drama in this LIFE..... Suddenly we met one day in the journey of LIFE..... We start to read each other in the book of LIFE..... We started to like the pages of our LIFE..... You started to write in my heart.... & I started to write in your heart.... Both of our heart books binded together..... Yesterday u were a friend to me & I was a friend...

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தெய்வம் வாழ்வது எங்கே ??? தவறுகளை உணரும் மனிதன் நெஞ்சில்......

அழகான பாடல் வரிகள். இந்த வரிக்குள் தான் எத்தனை அர்த்தங்கள் புதைந்துள்ளன. உலக மக்களை இரு வகையாக வேறுபடுத்தலாம். கடவுளை நம்புவோர் ஒரு வகை. நம்பாதோர் இன்னொரு வகை. கடவுளை நம்புகிறோம எல்லைய என்பது முக்கியமல்ல. கடவுளை நம்புவதில், வணங்குவதில் எந்த தவறுமில்லை. என்னைப் பொறுத்தவரையில், நாம் ஒவ்வொரு சமயத்தினரும் ஒவ்வொரு பெயர் கொண்டு கடவுளை போற்றி வணங்கினாலும் கடவுள் ஒருவரே. எல்லா சமயத்தினதும் பொருள்  " நன்மை செய். தீங்கு இழைக்காதே". கடவுளுக்கு முருபெயர் "அன்பு " என்று சொல்லலாம். எங்கெல்லாம் தூய அன்பு குடிகொண்டுள்ளதோ அங்கெல்லாம் கடவுள் வாழ்கிறார்....

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நம் காதல்

என் காதலை வெளிப்படுத்தியதும் முதன் முதலாக நீ ஸ்பரிசம் செய்தது என் கையை - அது ஆசையுடன்.... நீ என்னை விட்டு பிரிந்து போகும் வேளையில் இறுதியாக நான் ஸ்பரிசம் செய்ததும் உன் கையை - அது வேதனையுடன்... கை விரல் ஸ்பரிசத்தில் ஆரம்பித்து கை விரல் ஸ்பரிசத்திலேயே முற்றுப்பெற்றது நம் காதல்....

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விம்பம்

கண்ணாடி மேசையில் முகம் புதைத்தால் எல்லோருக்கும் தெரிவது தன் உருவம்..... அனால் எனக்கோ அங்கேயும் தெரிவது உன் விம்பம். என்னை விட்டு பிரிந்து கண்டங்கள் தாண்டிச் சென்றாலும், என் மனதில் நீ விதைத்துச் சென்ற உன் அழகிய விம்பம் எப்போதும் என் கண் முன்னே புன்னகைக்கும...

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Dowry

This is a general social topic. But some peoples major purpose of marriage is dowry. We can never assure a person who is marring for the dowry has true true. True love never needs money, beauty, status, etc..True love needs only good, loving, caring & trust worthy heart. When go to look for a bride though they like the bride how many people used to reject the bride if she does not have enough dowry as their expectation. Always cannot blame the guys. All are not same. Most of the cases a girl don't like to give dowry when the time of...

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My favorite quote

ALWAYS PUT YOUR SELF IN OTHERS SHOES. IF YOU FEEL IT HURTS YOU, IT PROBABLY HURT THE OTHER PERSON TOO. This is the quote which i always remember & like it a lot. whenever i get hurt by some one or whenever i see a person talking bad about another, this is the first thing which comes to my mind.  Before put out a word or doing anything, if every individual can think in others point of view 99% of the problems will not be there. Sometimes really getting frustrated while the people surrounding us cheating, hurting & doing...

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Some of the Interesting Matters

Spend some time alone.  Just being in bed & refreshing some happy moments or thinking about something which we like.  Spending time with a loving person in a lonely place.  Candle light dinner.  Some happy incident happening unexpectedly.  Getting appreciation from a person whom we like, even for a small matter.  Being in the beach late night.  Walking in the forest with a friend’s gang.  Having ice cream in the rain.  Playing & getting wet in the heavy rain.  Being alone in a room with...

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Choice

All the creatures have choices in life. All the things we do are depend on a choice. We have got a life. By knowingly or unknowingly we all make it our life according to our choice. I can say all our life is filled with choices. Sometimes we have to do few things for someone else. That can be our parents/siblings/ spouse/ friends whoever. In that case still someone else choice has an influence on us & us also willingly or unwillingly accepting that choice. From birth to death all happening according to a choice. When the time mother...

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Abortion is illegal or can be legalized.

 I cannot say abortion is a good unless if you found out the baby is disable or with some problems. It’s a sort of killing. But on the other way do a person don’t have the right to do an abortion if she don’t want the baby @ that time. Anyone can ask me, If they don’t want a baby @ that time why they did not think about it befor…. true.. But there can be unavoidable situations can happen. Most of the times people used to think after something taken place only.  In that case if they really don’t want the baby it’s better to...

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Anger

Why people get angry? I really don’t like when people gets angry without a proper reason. Even though if a major problem there are many ways to solve it in a proper way. But why people can’t understand it & just shouting. If he/she behaves so, the good impression which other person had on he/ she only will be vanished. I hate to talk to such people.  Once I read it in a mail “anger is a situation where the tongue works faster than the mind/brain”It’s very true. Why can’t just think the consequence before doing anything. Coz of...

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Auspicious Time

Most of the Sri Lankans have faith on this auspicious time. When we take the new year, on that day most of the activities are done according to the auspicious time. Not only on the new year day; there are many things mostly happen according to the auspicious time. such as moving to a new house, keeping name for babies, wedding etc, etc. How far we can keep faith on this auspicious time??? what’s the proof that all will happen good if we start or do with this auspicious time??? For example when come to a marriage most of the Sri Lankan...

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Love the person as the way they are

As humans we all have experienced love. As kids first we love our parents, then sibling, friends, spouse, etc. When we say love mostly we talk about the love between opposite sex. Love can start from first sight or after few days of association or after few years. Love starts coz of some attraction on the other person. Some people attracted towards the appearance, beauty… some for the habit… heart…. Talks….. etc, etc… Since we like something on the opposite party we start to love them. But how many of them love the person as the way...

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அம்மா

அன்பு பாசம் காதல்... இவ் வார்த்தைகளின் அர்த்தத்தை முதலில் கற்றுகொடுத்தது நீதான் அம்மா... அதனால்தானோ அம்மா என்பதும் ஒரு மூன்றெழுத்து வார்த்தை... ஒருவன் பிறந்தவுடன் முதலில் சொல்லும் வார்த்தையும்   அம்மா..... வேதனை நேரங்களில் வெளிவரும் வார்த்தையும் அம்மா... கடவுளை நம்பாதவர் உலகத்தில் பலர்... அனால் அம்மாவை நம்பாதவர்களோ வெறும் சிலர்...விரல் விட்டு என்னலாம்... Below is what i read sometimes back & thought to share it here : When I came home...

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Memories play a confusing role. They make u laugh when u remember the time u cried 2gether. But make u cry when u remember the time u laughed 2gether

If we Just read, this is just a quote. But this consists a very good reality & a meaning. I am sure every one of us experienced this in life. This can be with friends, parents, girlfriend/boyfriend, spouse or even with a nature. Most of the times when we are together we do not realize or feel the value of anything. After leaving only we start to miss more. I have experienced this many time & also i am sure even in the future i will. If we really fond of something or if we love a person, anyone will like to be surrounding it/him/her. But...

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என்ன வாழ்க்கை டா இது ?

நம்மில் பல பேர் எதாவது ஒரு பிரச்சினை, கவலை என்று வந்தவுடன் சொல்லும் ஒரு வார்த்தை தான் என்ன வாழ்க்கை டா இது.. ஆனால் நான் இந்த தலைப்பை சுட்டது சிம்புவிடமிருந்து... (வானம் - சிம்பு ).  வாழ்க்கை என்பதற்கு பத்து பேரிடம் வரைவிலக்கணம் கேட்டால் பத்து வரைவிலக்கணம் கிடைக்கும். ஒவ்வொருவரும் வாழும் விதம், வாழ்கையை அனுபவிக்கும் விதம் வேறுபட்டவை. சிலர் நல்லதோ கேட்டதோ நமக்கு பிடிச்சிருந்தால் சரி என்ற நோக்குடன் வாழ்பவர்கள். இன்னும் ஒரு சிலர் கொஞ்சம் சிந்தித்து எதிலுமே நல்லது கேட்டது எது என ஆராய்ந்து பார்த்து முடிவு எடுப்பவர்கள். ஆனால் எப்படி வாழ்ந்தாலும்...

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நானும் நீயும்

என் கண்ணில் சோகமா இல்லை கோபமா இல்லை ஏக்கமா......எனக்கே புரியவில்லை ... நீயில்லாத சோகமும், என் மேலே எனக்குள்ள கோபமும் இந்த உலகத்தையே பறிகொடுத்துவிட்ட எதோ ஒரு ஏக்கமும் சேர்ந்து என்னை வாட்டுகிறது..... யாரோ ஒருவன் சொன்னான் இசை மனதை எளிதாக்கும் என்று..... ஆனால் பெண்ணே எதை கையில் எடுத்தாலும் உன் வசந்த கால நினைவுகள் என்னை எங்கோ கொண்டு சென்று விடுகின்றன..... என் கையில் இருப்பது வீணையா இல்லை உன் விரல்களா... இசை மீட்ட உன் விரல்களை தா பெண்ணே .... ஏங்குகிறேன் ..........

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