Miss You

Before your departure i started to count the days for your arrival Every second is like a year when your out of my sight I wake up with a happy mind on your arrival day By the time i open my my eyes my phone started to ring. It was U.............................. With extra happy i said hello But your word destroyed all my hopes within a second. Only tears started to speak Why you said you are not coming???? To teach me the happiness which...

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Never think twice to express a good thing

Everyone think about their future & do hard works. But whatever we do no will never know whether we will be alive in the next minute. No one can predict it. But we live with a hope that we will be alive. That is why we postpone matters in our life. There are times we want to appreciate a person or wanna say something and due to some reason we will not express it or postpone it.  When person is alive normally people tries to dig their loopholes & always tries to find faults. But same time when he/she dies the same people who used...

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Daily deal Market.....Anything.lk

Daily deal market is a hottest business concept and it can attract many customers.  What is Daily Deal market? This is kind of a e-business. Each day the business offers deals in it's website with a huge percentage of discount. Which is mostly around 50% off from the original price. This is a tripping point in human psychology. Less price may attract so many customers. For example when a price of something remains 10,000 we may not look at it. but when the same thing which is given for 5,000 we will consider about it. Also...

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Facebook.... Facebook.. Facebook

I have already written a post about the Facebook & the usage of it. With the below link can view the previous post. http://niroshii.blogspot.com/2011/06/facebook-fb.html Today a particular status of a friend of mine only made me to write this post. After work i came to my place and as usual log in to Facebook. When i was checking the home page my first attention went to a specific status of a friend. i,e "It is almost two years passed since my mom died. :(( i miss my mom"  Mothers love is unconditional....

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What goes around will come around

There is a famous saying "what goes around will come around". When some one do a wrong most of the people used to tell this. I do not know the truth in this. But up to some extent i believe in this saying.  Though some people think that they are perfect as humans non of us are perfect. Every individual has loopholes. Some times we hurt others unknowingly by our words or actions. Cannot help for it. But there are times by knowingly we hurt others or do wrong to others. No remedy for this. If we are purposely doing a wrong to others...

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Its Saturday but a blank day

Already i have mentioned in one of my previous blog i have a problem in finding the topics to write. Most of the time when i think to write something i go blank. Now also same. So just thought a write about today. But i have nothing to write about today because i did not do anything for the whole day. Most of the time i spent in my bed. After work reached my place early morning and then next step is internet as usual. Since no chatting today was watching song for sometimes & went to bed. Again wake up around 2.30pm and did...

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Sri Lankan University Education System

When some one talking about the university education the first thing which every one asking before the studies "what about the ragging? ". That much the word ragging has been interacted with the university education. When a person enter to the university the first thing which he/she should undergo is ragging. I am not totally against for ragging. Just requesting to sing a song or telling some funny things are acceptable. I can remember still some of those things which i did as sweet memories. But physical ragging is not acceptable. This has taken...

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LOVE.............. Which kind of love is better???

Love is one of the utmost thing every one expect in life and any way its is a sweet feeling. True love will make ease so many problems in life. Though love is only a four letter word it means a lot & cannot define Exactly this is love. This may differ person to person. The way a person show their love & also how they wanted to be love is not same. This may differ person to person. Mainly we can categorize the way of love in 2 ways. Some people they always show and express their love. But other half they always do not express much...

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Just a Thought...

Most of the times i wanted to blog something. But i do not come up with a topic what to write. Today also i was in the same mindset and just thought to write about this. Life never be the same. There are many periods/situations in every individual life. In our day to day life we meet and associate with so many people. When we are small except the family we know very few people. The first step in our life to the social life is, entering the pre-school/school. From that day itself we meet so many friends & new people in our...

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Love at first sight

There is no one specific definition for love. Every one will define it in various ways. As humans all of us need love for a happy life. First of all we experience the love of our parents and then  siblings, relatives, friends and so on. We get loved by various people in our life. In that, the role of soul mate plays a huge part in life. After marriage the husband & wife becomes one. Two souls combines together. It is the very stable relationship in our life. Until the death we are going to live & share the whole life...

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If We can Go Back Few Years............

We are living in a modernized and an advanced world. Specially mobiles & internet already became a part of our day today life. Most of the things are done in a call and also has online facilities for most of the things. if we need food by a call can get door step delivery. For most of the things no need to to go get it done. Via online can get it done.  But if we have a look few years back everything totally different. Our parents/Grand parents did not have those facilities as we are. if want to contact a person hardly had telephone...

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Infertility & Divorce

I thought to write about this after hearing an incident from a friend of mine. Generally when we talk to friends so many things will be shared. Likewise recently when i was talking to a friend of mine she was telling me about her sister & the problem what she facing currently.  She has already told me that her sister & brother in law had the affair for 8 years before marriage. They have married about 3 years back & have no kids yet though they have tried so many medicines. Because of that they have both have problems...

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Its not hard sacrifice something for someone or wait for someone. But its hard to find that someone who deserves it!!!

 "It is not hard to sacrifice something for someone or wait for someone. But its hard to find that someone who deserves it". This is my today's face book status. It is not my own. While i was reading something i got it sometimes back. It may be just a quote. But it is very realistic. Consist lot of meaning.  In life all of us do some kind of sacrifices on behalf of others. If you do a sacrifice on behalf of someone whom you like, then you feel happy. It is not painful or hard. But most of the time the people whom we sacrifice does...

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Popularity

Popularity is some of the peoples major dream. There are people who expect popularity in every thing what they do. I am not telling any bad to popularity or popular people or who seeks popularity. It is a wish of few. But just sharing some of my own thoughts.  Personally i do not like popularity. There are people especially girls who are crazy about some celebrities and going after them. When ever i see such people i used to think why do they wanna go after them or so much crazy about them. There also just normal people due to...

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Some of The Great Values to Admire.

Honest In other words can say speaking truth or sincere. As humans non of us are perfect. There are times all of us lie. If we call a person as honest it does not mean he/she has never lied. Most of the time being truthful especially with there loved once. There are few friends(guys) of mine who love their mother a lot. Most of the time they listen whatever their mother tells & have told me several times mom is my life.But they smoke without...

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What is Psychological pricing & how it affect the buying power...

Psychological pricing is a marketing/business concept which is used to influence the consumer buying power. Customers respond better to certain type of prices & they are more likely to buy with certain price levels. Psychological prices more often ends with the 9 digit. For example, 99.99, 9999.99, 99,999.99, etc.These kind of prices of course does not have any effect on the monkey what we are going to pay. Even if it is...

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Movie Review - "Oye"

"Oye" is a Telungu movie. Though i am wring the review now it is not a new movie. It released almost 2 years back with the acting of "Siddarth" & "Shamili". It is a very good movie to watch who ever like love stories. Shamili is an ideal Indian girl who thoroughly believes in numerology, sentiments, long life & all the regular simplistic life. Siddarth is a contradictory character to her. He is a rich person...

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One God Forever

Does God Exist? Some people have this question on their mind. Whatever the question only two answers related to it. Either God exist or he is not. Whether you are an atheist or a theist all people live with some hope, some faith.  With my experience & faith i strictly believe in god. God exist in the world. We have many religions in this world. All the religion see & worship the god in different ways. For example Islamic people they do believe in Allah. As a christian i do believe & worship Jesus.  If...

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One of the Biggest Cheater

If i put a open question "Who is the biggest cheater?" every one will come up with different answers.It can be vary person to person. But every one has a biggest cheater inside us.  I would say the biggest cheater is our mind. While being with us it cheats several times. If we really need something or like something then our mind start to react in that way. it will give favorable options as our wish. Though something is good and if we don't like it then our mind will give hundreds of fake reasons not to go for it. Most...

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Observation

This is about something which i noticed today while i was travelling from Kandy to Colombo. When i was waiting for the bus at the Kandy bus halt two guys were standing in front of me. From that one guy dressed up in official & other one was wearing a casual shirt. One bus conductor was also wearing the same casual shirt which that guy was wearing. After noticing that that guy was telling to the other guy "Look this bus conductor also wearing the same shirt which i am wearing. I feel like removing it now. I am not going...

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A getting to know questionnaire - 2

Sometimes back i have added a getting to know questionnaire. http://niroshii.blogspot.com/2011/06/getting-to-know-you-questionnaire.html. This is another part of it. 1- What's worse - Physical or Mental cheating? Both. But a person who don’t cheat mentally do not tend to cheat physically as well. 2- Is it easier to forgive or forget? To forgive. 3- Can men and women be “Just Friends?" Yes. 4- Do you think is it possible to understand a person fully? Nope. Sometimes we cannot understand our own self. Then how can understand another...

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An interesting Animal

If i ask what is the interesting animal everyone will come up with different answers. Most of the people used to like Dog. Dog is the favorite pet for many. If some one ask me what is my favorite animal or which is the most interesting animal my answer is Monkey. If i say that lot of people used to laugh at me. Comparatively monkey is one of the animal most of the people do not like & used to insult about. But from small...

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A Small Story With a Big Message

This is a small story which i read. But carries lot of feelings. Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, 'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.' The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.' 'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father. 'There's a big difference,' replied the little girl. 'If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure...

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Do Age Attain ceremony Necessary for a girl??

Age attending is a natural thing which happens in a particular time of age. I have no idea how all the communities & cultures deal with it. But in Asian countries they celebrate this as a function. Especially in Tamil culture with the name of “Sadangu”. I would call this as a single marriage. Only a groom will be missing in that ceremony. The girl will be dressed up like a bride & the parents will invite all the relatives & known people. That is why I said it is almost like a single marriage. For a wedding you are taking a function...

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Never can satisfy woman (???)

This is a topic which came across in the office transport two days back. While going to office in the evening guys started this topic. I cannot remember the reason why they started this. But as per them woman cannot be satisfied.  Cannot totally agree with that statement. But even i think girls expect more than guys. But it does not mean woman can never be satisfied. Mostly girls do sacrifices on behalf of their family than the guys. They do sacrifice their wills on behalf of their loved once. There are guys who does so many sacrifices....

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Saree Vs Jeans/Pants

Saree is one of the oldest dress which is wearing by asian ladies. Specially it is a cultural dress among Tamil community. Nowadays females have variety of clothes such as shalwar, frock, jeans, etc.. etc.. Among all, Jeans/Pants is one of the most popular dress by woman nowadays. From small to elder most of the people wear it. Still there are people who do not like woman wearing jeans. they think it is an indecent dress. specially in Tamil & Muslims communities. The people who say so accept saree as a decent dress & they...

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Stubbornness

Stubborn/Adamant  some of the common words we can here in our day today life. Some of the attitudes or feeling derive to a person at a particular time of the age. But stubborn come from the small age. A child who cannot speak also stubborn at times. Until they need something which they wanted they will cry. Likewise From small to elder all the people are stubborn in some way. Generally all say stubborn is a bad habit & a person should not be stubborn. Yes can agree with that. some people are stubborn even for a small matter....

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Do people need others only for their needs?

When someone put a open question from all of us "Do you need others only for your needs" mostly all of us response will be "No". But most of the times it is the opposite way. At time all of us are bit selfish. No one can reject it. But the reality is the people whom we associate thinking good in our day to day life are also same most of the cases.  When they need something or at happy times all will be there. When we are in a need no one will be there.  The way of behaving of a person when others are happy not...

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Facebook (FB)

Nowadays Facebook is one of the most popular social network & most popular word among youngsters. Like phone number nowadays one of the most common question which is asked when people are meeting is, "do u have a Facebook account?". From small to elder mostly all tends to create an account in FB. Though their is a age restriction as above 18, actually there is no use in that. All the people who are below 18 they create their account with a fake date of birth.  As in everything...

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A getting to know you questionnaire

1. Tell me something obvious about you - I am a girl :) 2. Tell me something about you that many don't know - mm I don't know. May be that i feel sad even for a small thing. 3. What is your biggest fear - well.... if anything which makes me suffering, causes pain & also taking tablets. 4. Do you normally go the safe route or take the short cut?  - Mostly safe.@times short cut. 5. Name one thing you want that you can't buy with money - Trust 6. What do you most value in your friends - Always talking to the face, true caring, trust, speaking...

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Everyone in life is gonna hurt you, you just have to figure out which people are worth the pain.

This one of the saying which i like most. The reason for it is, this is very true & a realistic one. I am sure every one in this life going to hurt others in some way. Most of the time by knowingly & sometimes unknowingly. Some people they do get hurt even for a small thing(Including me) & some are not like that.  We mostly get hurt when a person whom we like a lot, care about & trust do something or say something. We cannot assure all the people who we like, care & trust have the same feeling on us. For them we may...

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Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, forever to repair...

Trust is one of the most precious word. Everybody live their life based on some trust. No one is living without hopes. Trust is very important in all the relationships. Love is also based on trust. When a person says trust me, we are not going to trust that person. Trust is totally based on the activities & behaviors of the other person. we build trust on them based on that. As soon as we see a person we cannot trust. We can talk to anyone. I do not see any wrong in talking to people. Because a person who is bad for others...

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Visit to an Elders Home

Today i went for an elders home @ Modara which is "Shanthi Nivasa". This has done by Missionaries of charity. As i say always my favorite personality & most beloved woman in this world is Mother Theresa. Once @ university while we were talking, just we were telling about the woman whom we adore most. Mostly all said their mother. I said Mother Theresa. Then one person told me "this is bad, no one can be as our mother"....

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A good friend can be a good Husband.

Friendship has no gender. It can be born between any one.  Nowadays friendship between opposite sex is a common thing. On the same time we do see some of such friendships turn in to Love after sometime. I thought to write of this after seeing a debate topic in a paper “whether friendship turning into Love is good or bad”. In that Debate some has argued friendship cannot be turned into love. If it turns so it is like cheating the friendship & no real friendship in that. The people who have positively argued has wrote that, it is a...

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Dansela

Dansela is a most common word which comes with vesak day. Vesak is a day when the Buddhist celebrate Lord  Buddha's Birth, Enlightenment and Death. With Lanterns & Pandals Dansela also playing a major role on the vesak day.  Those days no transport facilities as we have now. People used to travel by walking or by carts most of th time.It makes people tired. Because of that in the roads some used to give drinks or something...

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Getting to know each other better!

This is i got it from some website some times back. This application's heading is getting to know each other better. But here i am going to fill this & i am going to get to know about me :) 1. What time did you get up this morning? I slept in the morning 2. How do you like your steak? Fry 3. What was the last film you saw at the cinema? Water for Elephants 4. What is your favorite TV show? Currently non. 5. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be? Where ever only the good people live 6. What did you have for breakfast?...

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