One of my favorite movie character

While watching movies we can come across so many interesting characters which we like. In those some we will forget after few days. But some characters which will be in our mind always.

Today i thought to write about one of that kind of character which i like always. I think i watched this movie almost 10 years back. I have watched so many movies after that. But still from the day i watched that movie i used to like that particular character. This will not change.

This is non other than the character which is played by Ajay Devgan as "Vanjaj" in Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam. I'm sure in reality there will be very very less people like that. may be we can count if there is.

What is there that much in that character? If we just see the movie & the character its one of the same love story with a sort of same ending which all the movies have. But if we go deep in to "Vanraj" character, can see the difference in that.

I will just write here the summary of the Ajay Devgan's character. In that he will get marry to Ishwarya Rai by a proposal. But he used to like her a lot. After marriage only he will get to know that she had an affair before & still she is loving & thinking about him & not Ajay. He is getting to know that Ish is not happy with him & she is married him because of her parents forced. Since that he is deciding to find & make together Ish & her boyfriend who is already left india & went to Italy coz of the Ish's family request.

Ajay's father knows he is loving Ish. After getting to know the decision of Ajay that dad don't scold like others. he will tell one word. "So far you used to loose all your cases (Ajay is a lawyer in that). But you have won your life. I am really proud of you"

He was bearing all the pains & troubles because of his loving wife. There is a saying "If someone really loves you, they will give priority to your happiness than their happiness". What Ajay Devgan does is exactly what was stated in that saying. Though he love Ish a lot he do not want to keep her if she is not happy. That is why he is trying to find & give her happiness. He thinks only about her happiness. Not about him. Untill the last moment what ever Ajay does Ish does not realize the value of it. But he does all without expecting a return for him.

One of the very difficult thing is letting to go the person whom we really love. But he is doing that. In that also the highlight is after marriage. He does not think about his future. He needs only his wife to be happy. He is trying to seek happiness on her.

I have attached a link here which shows his patience.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QyZ-Ce0wg1E

This is my all time favorite character in the screen. I wished to see that sort of people in the reality as well.

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Beauty....

Beauty is the first thing which can catch up a persons eye. When we see a beautiful thing we used to express it with several words such as "pretty, cute, beautiful, awesome, gorgeous" etc, etc...

Every individual like to be beautiful & all have their own beauty. Beauty can differ to person to person. It depends on the way how a person seeing it. Some times we used to like something because of the beauty & also if we like something that is always beautiful for us.

Most of time time we use to look the external beauty of the person. People get attracted towards the appearance. Rarely look in to inner beauty of the person. In the society there are lot of people who is not beauty by face. But they beautiful than some people who is beautiful only by looks.

A person who is beautiful by heart is thousand time better than a person who is only nice by looks. Beauty can shade away. But a pure heart will remain the same forever. Rarely can see people who has both.

Apart from appearance some of the beautiful things/persons which/whom i see;

• A helping heart
• Who can treat every one only with the category of "HUMAN", without separating by race, religion, cast, poor, status, etc..
• Who can appreciate & value even a minor thing.
• Who can see a beauty even in a rain drop.
• Trustworthiness & understanding.
• When the whole world misunderstands you & treating badly, a true loving & caring heart which can see your value & be with you.
• Who forgets the bitter memories or mistakes & value or remember the good things which received by him/her forever.

Likewise there are so many things which can be attracted from a person. 

EXTERNAL BEAUTY YOU CAN ADMIRE. BUT INNER BEAUTY YOU CAN WORSHIP.

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 வேண்டும் என் அருகில்...

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உனக்கு ஆசையில்லை...
நான் வெட்டவெளியாய் இருந்ப்பதில் தான்
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Who made this as a culture?

All the ethnicities have their own cultures.  Sinhalese have their own cultures & rituals. As well as Tamils have their own culture & rituals. Personally I have some contradictory thoughts with the tamil culture.

If you see most of the Tamils specially Hindus keep “pottu”, “flower”. That is some once wish if they like can keep or else no need. But some thinks married people they should keep “pottu” & always should wear “thaali” ( Thaali is sort of a necklace which is put by the groom to the bride on the time of wedding). If a person wishes they can wear those. But I cannot understand why some people forcing to do those kind of things. A respect or love towards the husband should come from the heart & not from this kind of external factors. Also some used to measure a married woman by pottu. Some thinks only a widow should be without pottu & thaali. All the married woman who is with husband should be with those always.

Same time in case a husband dies then they should get rid of all those pottu & thaali. As per that culture a widow should not be with pottu & thaali. They should be very charm. If husband dies obviously the wife will suffer a lot. I do not know with that suffering why they are making her by looks also sad. If a person who is be with all those as soon as she goes in front of the mirror without pottu & thaali it might make her more sad. Also it shows to everyone that she is a widow. If she keeps pottu & wears thaali the society will make thousands of stories about her. Most of the people specially the ladies they are scared of the society & the stories what they make. Because of that even if they like something they will sacrifice it on behalf of others. Rarely some ladies can see who don’t care about what society tells & who lives for their self.

Apart from all those, as a very bad thing what I see is if they have a ceremony or some kind of function they don’t take widows to front. Even if it’s a function of her own child the major part should be taken by a lady who is living with her husband. Not the widow. They think her as bad luck. If husband dies for some reason what can the wife do for it. How can it be her bad luck? Same time if wife dies they do not treat the husband in such a way. Mostly all the restriction is for the ladies.

Nowadays these kind of stupid cultures are bit reducing. But still there is lot of people who is practicing those, especially in rural areas & mostly in some parts of India. When this kind of things will change??????????

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Am i a murderer ???

All the people who are non vegetarians are murderers in some way including me. if so i should be a very big murderer. Being non veg is not wrong. But many time i have thought when getting killed how much an animal should be suffering? An animal also a creature like us. When cutting it must be also having the same pain. If a small blade cut how much it is paining for us. So how much it must be paining for that animal. 

But When eating we (I) do not feel it. As i said many times i have thought how much it must be suffering. But while eating when seeing the taste all the thoughts gone. Its difficult to be a veg even for a day. When a bird or a animal is injured or if with some sick most of us will feel sad. Even if a small injured & when it is bleeding we feel sad a lot. sometimes i cry also. But cannot think a logic why that same feeling not coming when eating the same animal & also cutting with the purpose of eating. 

Just for an example if we keep a Hen at home as a pet even if it is bit injured we may feel sad. If some one ask to cut & eat we will never let to do. But same time we will eat chicken which has been cut by some one else some where. What to do.. that cannot be changed. Next time when eating i also forget what i said now & will nicely taste it & eat :( .

Thats how our same mind changing according to situations. Not only in this matter most of the time we do the same. If something for us we feel a lot. But for others we do not care.

I have never thought about plants. After reading the above post my friend is the person who send me the below link. according to that plans also have life & they also can suffer like as. It can be. coz all the things which have life have feelings too.
Please see the below link.
http://www.freeindia.org/biographies/greatscientists/jcbose/index.htm

One persons happiness consists the sadness of another person. 

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